Books marked with * are recommended for first reading.
Real People Press, Meta Publications and Science and Behavior Books are several good sources. Some of these books are also available through Amazon.com. Others will probably need to be ordered through a bookstore.
For those interested in learning more about NLP in depth, I recommend the Practitioner Trainings at either NLP Institute of California or NLP Comprehensive, both run by experienced and knowledgable NLP folk. Beware of others--the quality of trainings can vary greatly, and there are quite a few people who represent themselves as master NLP trainers when they are in fact not.
I'm sorry that few of the books have direct links--try Real People Press first.
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Transforming Your Self: Becoming Who you Want to Be*
by Steve Andreas
My Lessons with Kumi*
by Michael Colgrass
Best Introductory Titles
These are some of the best books for introducing people to NLP. Some are also included in the extended booklist below.
NLP: The New Technology of Achievement*
edited by Steve Andreas and Charles Faulkner
Introducing Neurolinguistic Programming*
by Joseph OConnor and John Seymour
Using your Brain For a Change*
by Richard Bandler (Connirae & Steve Andreas, editors)
Change your Mind and Keep the Change*
by Steve and Connirae Andreas
The Heart Of The Mind*
by Steve and Connirae Andreas
NLP Origins
These books cover some of the ideas that were at the foundation of the theory of NLP, or are related to the NLP concepts. The NLP procedures and processes were worked out by modeling Milton Erickson and Virginia Satir; these processes are described in the NLP Fundamentals section.
Plans and the Structure of Behavior*
by George Miller, Eugene Galanter, and Karl Pribram
Mind and Nature: a Necessary Unity*
by Gregory Bateson
Steps to an Ecology of Mind
by Gregory Bateson
Angels Fear: an Epistomology of the Sacred
by Gregory Bateson and Mary Catherine Bateson
Women, Fire, and Dangerous Things
by George Lakoff
NLP Fundamentals
These books cover the fundamental presuppositions and processes in NLP.
Introducing Neurolinguistic Programming*
by Joseph OConnor and John Seymour
Neurolinguistic Programming: The Study of the Structure of Subjective Experience
by Robert Dilts, John Grinder, Richard Bandler, and Judith Delosier
The Structure of Magic, Volumes I and II*
by John Grinder and Richard Bandler
Using your Brain For a Change*
by Richard Bandler (Connirae & Steve Andreas, editors)
Change your Mind and Keep the Change*
by Steve and Connirae Andreas
The Heart Of The Mind*
by Steve and Connirae Andreas
Core Transformation*
by Connirae and Tamara Andreas
Frogs Into Princes*
TranceFormations*
Reframing*
by Richard Bandler and John Grinder (Andreas editors)
NLP and Belief Systems
Belief systems are often the foundation of certain behaviors, supportive and destructive; these books describe models of modifying belief systems to allow change.
Transforming Your Self: Becoming Who you Want to Be*
by Steve Andreas
Beliefs: Pathways to Health and Well-Being
by Robert Dilts, Tim Hallbom and Suzi Smith
Changing Belief Systems with NLP
by Robert Dilts
NLP, with focus on Internal States & Processes
These books cover a different perspective on NLP: internal states (emotions), how they come up, and how to change them.
The Emotional Hostage*
by Leslie Cameron-Bandler and Michael Lebeau
Solutions
by Leslie Cameron-Bandler
Know-How
by Leslie Cameron-Bandler, David Gordon, Michael Lebeau
The Emprint Method
by Leslie Cameron-Bandler, David Gordon, Michael Lebeau
NLP in Therapy
These books cover the application of NLP techniques to therapy.
Thinking, Changing, Rearranging: Improving Self-Esteem in Young People*
by Jill Anderson
Provocative Therapy
by Frank Farrelly and Jeff Brandsma
Practical Magic*
by Steve Lankton
Irresistable Communication
by King, Novik, and Citrenbaum
Family Therapy (related to NLP)
These cover Virginia Satir's work and methods.
Virginia Satir: The Patterns of Her Magic
by Steve Andreas
Changing with Families*
by Richard Bandler, John Grinder, and Virginia Satir
Peoplemaking
by Virginia Satir
Conjoint Family Therapy
by Virginia Satir
Ericksonian Hypnosis
NLP processes are often delivered through hypnosis and hypnotic speech. Bandler and Grinder, as well as Gordon, developed models of Erickson which are presented in these books.
Patterns of the Hypnotic Techniques of Milton Erickson
by Richard Bandler and John Grinder
Patterns of the Hypnotic Techniques of Milton Erickson, Vol II
by John Grinder, Judith DeLozier, and Richard Bandler
Phoenix: Therapeutic Patterns of Milton H. Erickson
by David Gordon and Marybeth Meyers-Anderson
Other Books Related to NLP
NLP is more than a model of the mind: it's a completely new set of presuppositions and ways of looking at the world. These books present material that is of interest to NLP people, while not strictly NLP oriented.
New World, New Mind: Moving Towards Conscious Evolution*
by Robert Ornstein and Paul Ehrlich
Multimind
by Robert Ornstein
The Healing Brain*
by Robert Ornstein and David Sobel
The Reenchantment of the World
by Morris Berman